Five Love Notes to My
Grandmother

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By Tesa

I was just in France to visit my grandmother, who is very dear to me. I don’t get to cross the Atlantic very often, and she’s now 96 year old, so every time I go to visit, the
two of us are very aware that it might be the last time we see each
other.

The last time I visited her in December of 2004, I did a series of short video interviews about her life. I asked her what it was like to grow up with her father in the 1910’s (her mother died during labor) and to live through the German occupation alone with two young children, with a husband away at a prison camp in Germany.

I asked her about her greatest memories and life learnings so far, her favorite books, foods, stories. I also asked her about her spirituality and her thoughts about death. I learned a lot of amazing new things about her I never knew before. These were very intimate conversations and a very special time for both of us.

This year, I did not really have questions, only a great urge for her to know how loved she is. I cooked for her and read her stories. I gave her a foot massage, which I was amazed to discover was her first ever! Before leaving, I was looking for a way to leave something meaningful behind besides the memory of our time together. So I wrote her five different love and gratitude notes to let her know how much she means to me, and hid them in different places where I knew she would eventually find them.

One I hid under the sheets, on her pillow. Another I left hanging from the lamp shade that she reads under in the evening. Yet another was laid by her toothbrush. One I stashed in the mailbox that she eagerly checks every day. And a last one I balanced on her car’s s t e e r i n g wheel (she still drives to the nearby village a couple of times a week to run errands!). I left really joyous knowing that these cards would surely cheer her up after I left (she lives by herself). She called me as I was traveling back to Paris to catch my plane and said “I found your three cards! By the time I discovered the third, I was laughing out loud! They did me so much good. Thank you so much!” I smiled to myself, knowing she still had two more to go! It was Sunday, so I guessed she had not yet checked her mailbox or driven her car.

As I was sitting on the plane back to the U.S., I remembered that one of my friend’s guiding principles is to treat everyone like family, and so I was thinking about ways to practice that in different settings, including on a plane ride. I decided that on my next flight, I would bring and write five anonymous appreciation cards for different people on the plane, including the pilot who probably does not get thanked enough for taking us safely to our destinations.
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Posted August 2015
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